It’s possible that this post ventures a little too far into telling you who and how to be, I don’t care though, it needs to be written. There are some things that you just don’t do because not only does it come off wrong, but it likely scares off many awesome people who would otherwise have been interested in serving and submitting to you.

Choosing a FinDomme Name

Guess what? You aren’t going to use your name, your usual handle, or your childhood nickname. Well, why not? Because even if you don’t realize it yet, you now give a damn about internet privacy. Not only do you have to worry about someone you know finding you, but it is relatively simple to find more information on someone by looking up their name. Come up with a name that you like and use that. Make sure that someone else isn’t already using it. And in case you didn’t realize it, names like givememoney392 are kind of played out- it’s your call, though.

FinDomme Email

Do not use your private and personal email addresses! Create a totally new email address to use only for FinDom and related activities. Keep your personal email private from any and everyone. If you don’t want to deal with verification, you can use a site like mail.com to create one. Your private or work email can be tracked down online, whether it is from family, friends, co-workers, or submissives that you’ve interacted with, allowing them to find more information about you than you’d like them to know.

Take NEW Photos

Don’t use a single picture you already have for your FinDomme profile. Take brand new pictures and delete them after you upload them to your FinDomme profile(s). Don’t save them to the cloud and accidentally send them to grandma. Don’t use them for Facebook, even though they are super cute. You don’t want anyone searching back your pictures and showing up at work on your lunch break, so don’t make it easy for them.

Where to Make Profiles

Make accounts wherever you want, this isn’t the post for a full list of sites with all their pro’s and con’s (TPB and I are working on something like that for a separate post). What I will say is, it’s a GREAT idea to try and avoid making profiles on sites you regularly use for vanilla purposes. Why?

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It can, and does, happen. So be cautious, smart, and safe. Protect yourself to the utmost while you do this.

Profile Content?

All of your profiles need to have content. Saying something like ‘I don’t really do this “about me” thing, so yeah, just get to know me…’ is totally stupid. Your public profiles are advertisements of yourself. Just like a dating website. You want to write some interesting things about yourself, and give a little run down of what you are looking for. What should your about section say?

First of all, you need to be honest. Honesty is what’s sexy and appealing. It allows people to see where you are at in your own life and journey of financial domination. While I’m sure it is tempting to announce that you’ve been financially dominating since you were 18 (or even younger), it won’t take long before you’re found at as a total newbie. There is nothing wrong with being new! We all were at one point in time and those of us who are still around were (probably) honest about it. Dishonesty does not work.

If you are new to financial domination, state it in your profile. Talk about what interests you in it and what else, if anything, that you’re interested in experiencing. If there’s some area that you consider yourself knowledgeable, throw it in! Advertise your abilities, what you’re looking for, what you’re NOT looking for (even though 90% of those who message will ignore it), and what you will never, ever do.

PLEASE don’t just say “give Me money” on your profile. That is just…. no.

That’s it. Follow these directions and you’ll have a profile that’s actually interesting to both the same, and the opposite sex, and you’ll be well on your way to finding your first financial subby!